The Rational Male - The Players Handbook: A Red Pill Guide to Game by Rollo Tomassi

Author:Rollo Tomassi [Tomassi, Rollo]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Counterflow Media
Published: 2022-04-20T18:30:00+00:00

Part III

Game Dynamics

Sexual Zoning

MGTOW is “avoiding women” and is a general maxim in the Manosphere, but a more general narrative pushed in mainstream media is that a “growing number of young men are avoiding women.” What does “avoiding women” mean in a socio-cultural context?

The word “avoid” entails active, deliberate, protective measures. The “avoidance of women” or a breakaway from women doesn’t look like that at all in practice today. The social context of male-female interaction has changed drastically in the last decade. In the old order, young people were expected to interact with each other in controlled environments that fostered long-term, monogamous, ideally assortative relationships.

This was a “holistic” approach where young people treated the other as potential future partners, sexual or otherwise, socially regulated. In all cases, they were permitted to interact in those environments. This was even the norm in workplaces where both men and women were present. The average man found a girlfriend through his extended family or social circle because families and social circles were more extensive.

What we have today is the complete opposite. Today we have “Sexual Zoning.” Some mixed-sex environments, like workplaces and school campuses, are entirely asexual zones. No potentially sexualized interactions are permitted to take place.

This is mandated by law and expected by society. In such environments, you’re supposed to strictly treat members of the opposite sex as co-equal, mutually rational colleagues or professional non-sexual beings.

On the other hand, mixed-sex environments like nightclubs are expected to be full-on sexual zones. Everyone there knows that all interactions entail the potential for casual sex. It’s your basic meet market. You’re expected to hit on girls, and girls expect to be hit on by attractive men. Socializing in these environments requires action and engagement.

If you want to find a partner, either for sex or something more, you have to go there, and you have to have Game. In other words, avoidance of women in the old days was an anti-social act of disengagement that was frowned upon or at least made you seem a bit weird.

Today, avoidance of women means you’re not expending excess energy and time to do certain things. It’s an “action” with few or no social repercussions. You won’t be socially ostracized for doing nothing, but technically it’s not an action. You’re basically “avoiding” women by not hitting the clubs on Saturday night. You’re avoiding them through simple inaction. You can have a full-time job, go to college, have a social circle, have hobbies, buddies, etc., basically a normie life, and still avoid women.

There is a stark contrast in how sexual zones are presented to men by women. From an old books perspective, men are still expected to be the initiators. It’s still men who are expected to approach and express interest in women. The men who don’t – or who fail to build themselves into acceptable mates for women – are labeled as perpetual adolescents or quitters.

Our feminine-primary social mandate still promotes the old order expectation that men will prepare themselves for, and initiate with, women who will decide who benefits them most.

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